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in my country aboriginals aren't treated as well as white folk. their health is pore. their education drop out rate is high. many live in poverty. they die much younger than white folk. they're accused of being shop lifters, of abusing their women, of being alcoholic dole bludgers scabbing off the system, of urinating in public (dumb since that also describes many white folk).

i can't say for sure what is going wrong but i've wondered what can we do to make their world a better place? how can we actually make a difference?

i imagine it's much the same with people of colour in america struggling to be equal with white folk and yet...

if our aboriginal brothers and sisters began to make it up the economic chain towards a better life only to disrespect their women folk i'd be outraged. and this is what we see happening with african americans within the american music and media scene all the time!

video after video made by black american males and females featuring their women in disrespectful sexual objectification and referring to them as bitches and hos. what the!!!!! how is this ok?

i remember oprah talking about the things that go on in the african american music world, saying pretty much that it is what it is, can't fight the system. left me speechless really because a lady in her position could make a difference had she gone against whomever she wouldn't go against, when making her statement.

why fight so hard for your freedom and liberties just to take away those liberties from your women?

lupe says it well in his song.

and this lady sums it up perfectly

why feminism doesn't work

the quick answer is coz no one agrees on what issues to battle. or what to fix first.

got women who believe women should be fighting for equal rights to go around topless like men or let women wear what ever they want even if others find it offensive or confronting. got women who think we should be modest and cover up even though others find that oppressive. got women who don't believe women should get equal pay because women take more days off to to deal with children than men, periods and other girl stuff. got women who think we shouldn't be telling other women off for being overtly sexual. got women who think overtly sexual is empowering an equals power over men (in some cases that is survival mode). got women who think all men are assholes who need to be shut down and ruled over. got women who like being controlled and dominated by men, who think that is a woman's natural role. got women who think 'if you like it you shoulda put a ring on it' and taylor swift songs equal teaching women to be weak and need a man. got people who think women already rule the world and just pretending that men call the shots because it works in their favour to lie about that. [if that's the truth somebody should let me know.] got women who think other women complaining about not being equal is bullshit 1st world problems. got women who think how we're living now is us finding and expressing our sexuality. got women who see that as man tricking us into thinking that is our sexuality. got women who think other women shouldn't breast feed in public, but it's ok for their men to visit strips clubs. got women who think we shouldn't talk about weight or body issues and not discuss what a healthy average really is; they think this is going against each other instead of helping each other.

how can feminism work when there are so many issues people don't agree on?

imagine of a woman thinking it's empowering to be overtly sexual

train story .. pretty lady

there was this woman on the train. i couldn't stop looking at her. she was beautiful to me. she had this michelle pfeiffer look about her. blond slim with perfect facial features. i wanted to be her. i wondered if she knew she was that pretty or if she didn't like herself. i wanted to go up to her and compliment her on her looks. wasn't sure if i should though and was too shy. i sat and watched her instead.

freedom of speech

freedom of speech or freedom to be cruel?

gone are the days when men got 50 lashings for stealing bread. gone are the days when people were tortured in dark dingy dungeons with hot oil poured down their throats for lying. gone are the days when people's head were publicly displayed on spikes as a warning to others not to break the law. gone are the people who inflicted this type or pain and torture upon fellow humans.

nope, this is the day and age of freedom of speech and rights for humanity. people aren't allowed to be cruel or break laws any more .. right?

love to say yes but all i can think about is

animal crush videos allowed to circulate the internet without prosecution and sick assholes who watch them.

animal cruelty in general, how we treat animals that will soon end up on our plates.

cyber bullies, aka gutless piss ants, who hide behind their anonymity and insult, belittle and threaten people to the point of making people commit suicide. yay you powerful person you being able to say that to their face .. not!

porn videos where young girls are actually raped, hurt and tortured again with sick assholes watching them.

stuff like harlem struggle and standing on a girls head while she's in doggy position and people who like to see and do this.

child pornography on the rise because there's too many sick bastards in the world, too many people catering to this shit and too many sicko fuck wits enjoying the pain and suffering of little children who didn't get to make the adult and informed choice of who they'd like to lose their virginity with!!!!

camel jockeys in the middle east, little boys stolen from their families to race  on camels for rich men and end up killed or badly injured, oh and they're also raped by the camel trainers just to you know .. make their life so much fucking better.

we may think we outgrew the dark ages but clearly many fuckers out there didn't get the memo and are just as cruel today as people were back then, and many other folks enjoy seeing and accepting this cruelty - other wise it wouldn't sell .. right!

all because .. oh yeah .. people have the right to freedom of speech and being into what ever they choose - so long as it's not hurting anyone, so people say. and of course money talks so if you're rich you'll get away with this shit by buying your way out of trouble.

well it is hurting others and what are we as a collective doing about it? what are our governments going about it? perhaps its time to remove those rights and freedoms people so enjoy and make them have to earn their rights back? do sick things on the internet = lose your internet rights. naughty adults should be treated like a naught child - you get punished by having your stuff taken away from you when you don't behave and you get your stuff back if you be good ? ? ?

open letter to nicki minaj

dear nicki
regarding your recent video song anaconda

i saw you on the ellen degeneres show and she was asking you why you think your video clip has reached a million views. you sat there playing dumb and claiming you've no idea why.

you can't be that stupid .. or can you? you know full well your video has had that many views because it's borderline pornography that millions can access for free (including children... not that you care). and the only reason people are watching it is because it's borderline porn. not because it's a great song with a great message.

there is no message in your song. there is no empowerment. unless you think wanting a big snake in your booty empowers others to... what? be free to choose anal? be free to be sexual? be free to have large bootys? boys get to share their desire for females with large bootys? coz boys have no say, already, in what size bootys they like so you're going to give them that power?

if not that what? what message are you sending out? that you've made it to the top? you're popular and everyone's talking about you? how does that empower others? what, we too could be as popular as you if we sell ourselves sexually? is that your message?

what about sending a message about equal pay, no disrespecting your sisters, what a female president might look like, no hitting your girlfriend, not selling your girlfriend or being pimps, you ain't no ones' bitch. the list goes on. if you really are so awesome and popular then give us a decent message. one worth listening to. one worth sharing. don't waste your talent and your time in the spot light on something that doesn't advance or empower us, your sisters.

i'm disgusted, horrified, upset and angry. it pisses me off when women sell themselves out in order to make money. it pisses me off when women sell others out in order to make money. and it pissed me off when those same women hypocritically tell other women to stand up for themselves (as you did).
i know you are a mere plastic puppet (with your plastic arse and boobs) and others are pulling your strings and turning you into some sexed up porn star (not pop star).

but you need to understand, as do other women in your position, that you're thrusting your sexed up adult world down the throats of babes (yes children are watching your adult content videos) so you (and those who own you) can be rich and famous. ask yourself do you really want girls and boys watching your video clip or listening to your lyrics and being inspired to copy your sexed up ways? do you really want teens wanting to aspire to be like you?

on top of that you slang skinny bitches at the end of your clip and that is super laughable because without your butt and breast implants you're the very thing you're slanging.

you and all the other pop princesses out there need to stop porning yourself out to the public. our little boys and girls, teens and others deserve better than the sexed up shit you're dishing out.


and kim kardasian. don't' get me started on her. for all her glam and glitz .. there is zero empowerment about her. what has she done for the world? what has she done to advance women or to inspire little girls?

note: there is a big difference in being sex positive and sexualised. one furthers women's rights, the other does not.

son, your sexuality has been hijacked 2

once upon a time men were taught by their fathers how to be impressive lovers, how to please a woman. men were taught that their manhood depended on how they could protect, provide for and please their woman.

this is evident in tantric , kama sutra learnings and others. once upon a time these books were handed down from father to son and learned fortunate men got to acquire such knowledge. the ignorant were just left to be lousy lovers. and these books weren't handed down as old time porn. it was never about what was in it for the man only or how the woman was there to service him, it was about being a pro at pleasuring the woman, knowing how to service her and what a man got in return for doing that. men must have known a happy wife equals a happy life.

these days sex is far less about pleasing a woman and more about 'all hail the mighty penis'. with pornography growing at a phenomenal rate and that porn becoming more and more about abuse of women, young girls and boys, it seems somehow 'the ignorant' have managed to become in charge of dictating our sex lives. and regardless of what they say nothing about porn is educational no matter how it's worded.

i've had my fair share of lovers and i've spoken to many many women about their sex lives and all of us have very similar stories to tell. sex with men is all about them and their penis. they no longer have the skill or the desire to really impress a woman. they no longer take their time or engage in foreplay, or learning about what makes their woman tick. for many males sex is about their own private (or not so private) porn show. it's all about sticking it in, wiggling it about then bragging to their mates about their sexual prowess (oh if only other men really knew how much their mates sucked in bed!)

sure there are great lovers out there. men who take the time to impress their woman because they pride themselves on being good in bed (and women who do the same). yet these men (and women) aren't the one's making porn (probably because they respect women too much). they're not the ones setting the scene for other men, they're not sharing their knowledge. they're not the ones in charge of teaching sex to other men and boys growing up to be men. for the most part their talents and views are lost among the ignorant who shout too loud and too proud.

it's the ignorant, abusive, women haters who make porn, the losers who can't get laid who make manga porn and sexualised female avatars, old blokes who choose making money over respect and equality for women, who will happily sexualise them to make $$$$$. i generalize, yes. these men could be awesome and have a high respect for women yet there actions and creations show otherwise - and they not always old because almost everyone has been taught this and most think it to be the truth and majority follow along because it's easier to do so. generalizations aside those making a prophet from selling women don't care about you .. they just want your money and they'll hurt whomever they want to get it. and we're raising the next generation of boys (and girls) to follow along.

and these are the people we are allowing to lead the way into modern day sexuality. time to stop and think about that

son, your sexuality has been hijacked

in much the same way as it is for females who think their overt sexuality is their choice... young men have also had their sexuality hijacked by seedy old pedo creeps.

it's been going on for decades now. old creepy ass men who no longer get any sex dictating what type of sex young men want. it's to the point now where young men think their idea of what appeals to them is theirs. well it isn't. you've all been duped, conned, tricked into thinking your desire for 'ripping her ass in two' is your own idea, your own desire.

majority of female sexual objectification and porn comes from old men with money on viagra wishing they were still young enough to have sex with hot under age teens (by the way this makes them pedos!) but they're not so they make videos about it and sell it to young men as what they should want from sex (which makes you a pedo .. yuk).

take the miley cyrus wrecking ball video clip for eg. it was made by a seedy yukko pervert who had an abusive upbringing by a man who considered women less than. he grows up thinking his dads view of women being less than is right, and beside he wasn't liked at school because he was an unattractive person (both physically and mentally), and now that he's famous (a photographer) he feels powerful and revels in his domination (his words) over women. and this dick is setting the scene / hijacking YOUR sexuality. telling young men (and women) what their sexuality should look like, what they should desire. do you really want this dick directing you?

consider that majority of men who frequent those asian sex trade countries do so for underage sex. again these are the men who are dictating what young men's sexuality should be. those men are pedos hiding under the guise of normal men. there is nothing ok about under age sex by fat ass ugly men who can't get laid to save themselves. there is nothing ok about buying sex (especially if you're too gross to get any). there is nothing ok about these types of men dictating what young men's sexuality and interests should look like. and yet these men are accepted in today's society as normal (a man's got needs right!) .. and this in turn raises young men to think under age pedo sex, treating girls as mere sex objects because it's all about the mighty penis .. is normal.

majority of the worlds porn is developed in the US (LA) by gross men who know that making porn more and more shocking sells. not because young men want to break girls asses in two or practice the harlem struggle but simply because their sexuality has been hijacked into thinking this is what hey want to see. and these gross men are only doing it to make money. to take your money! they don't give a shit who they hurt or what faculties they alter in their victims (both the people in the videos and those watching).

take an impressionable 11 year old boy for eg, do you think he really cares about anal sex coz it feels tighter and more dominating? do you think he really cares about splitting a girls ass it two? do you think he thinks of girls that way at all (just some object for him to get his rocks off)? no he doesn't. yet the chances of him thinking this way by the time he's in his teens is highly likely because older men taught him this is what he should be wanting. this is what his male sexuality should look like.

young men mark my words .. you are being brainwashed by seedy old pedo creeps, by abusive males, by men who hate women, have no respect for them and see them only as 'fuckable' .. into believing that what they desire is what you also desire.

take back your sexuality. don't let these bastards hijack your mind and your desires. reclaim what is rightfully yours and ask yourself if what you're being told and sold is really what you're sexuality would have looked like if these seedy old men hadn't gotten to you first. would manga porn (featuring prepubescent girls with camel toes) really have been what you desired before old men told you so?

p.s. old men can mean any man who is older than you because older men have been teaching young boys their seedy creepo ways for years, it's been handed down from decade to decade (a man's gotta do what a man's gotta do, a man's got needs right? women are there to service those needs right?) and with each decade what we teach young boys gets more and more twisted because each previous generation was hijacked into thinking this is what he should be doing.

will you pass this shit onto the next generation or will the buck stop with you?

p.p.s. how the buck stops with you
- stop watching porn - it's made by creepy men trying to tell you females are just real life blow up dolls made for you to stick things into.
- stop accepting men who go to asian countries for underage sex, they're not your mates (they're pedos).
- stop asking girls to sext and don't share those sexts around - again this is older men directing your sexuality and your disrespect for females. other men know when you share those sexts around they'll eventually get a hold of those pics for their own private (creepy pedo) collection.
- don't treat females as though they're just sex objects. they're no more a sex object than you are and you shouldn't be tricked into thinking they are.