too little too late

that's like when you always wanted something and whomever it was never gave it, refused to give it even when you asked, hinted, begged, cried.

even when you logically explained how one day it would be too late because there's only so much you can handle of them not giving you what you know they can, but refuse to. they were still like, nah you exaggerate, it will never be too late for me to realise you had a point all along, not believing you can predict how you'll feel in the future.

and then when that day comes they're thinking, what's this new thing you're doing were you're acting like it's too little, too late?

in your mind you knew this day would come. you knew you would reach the point of no return. you would reach the point where you just didn't feel the same, want the same, care the same.

now they're attempting to be nice and you're like, eh... don't care, doesn't feel all that good this many years too late.

you wish it did because it's what you always wanted. now it's finally here you feel like it's hard to believe. hard to trust. hard to care. hard to feel the same in return.

they say they've finally realised you were right, they needed to appreciate what they had because now they realise how good you are.

your stuck wondering how you're going to turn your feelings around. believe them. trust they're telling the truth.

but the biggest hurdle is overcoming all the stuff they made you believe about yourself, about your relationship with them. now you're stuck trying to restructure your heart.

abortion man or religions choice, or yours

should man, government or religion have say over a woman's body?


abortions are a very private thing that those who are apposed to it most likely haven't been in a position to understand. if they had experienced it first hand they'd understand there are so many variables behind the choice and it's not an easy choice to make.

you have to understand, those who've been there done that know they've robbed the world of a precious being. that little being might have saved the world and made it all they way to jupiter's moon and back.
or .. they could have turned into some resentful bigoted thang who thinks the world owes them.

you're a woman, he wants you to get rid of they baby, you don't.
who gets the final say in this situation?

you want to get rid of the baby, he doesn't.
who gets the final say in this situation?

neither of you want anything to do with 'it'
who gets the final say in this situation?

you're underage, not ready to be a mum, addicted to drugs or alcohol, you were raped, your career is booming and a baby will destroy it coz women can't have it all, society hates on single mothers living off welfare.

50iddy billion reasons why and how and when and where it could get complicated.
who gets the final say in this situation?

she should.

since the woman is the one who has to carry a baby full term it should be 100% her choice. if he doesn't want to keep the baby she should raise it by herself. if she can't raise it by herself she should consider not bringing another life into this (overpopulated) world. if he wants her to keep the baby but she doesn't he should find himself another partner who is on the same page as him and wants children, not force her into having it because he says so.  if she wants to adopt the baby out, her choice. if she wants to keep the baby and raise it on her own, her choice. if she doesn't want to keep the baby and have it aborted, her choice.

in all cases it should be the woman's choice. religion (created by man) should not come into play and even if it does she'll face her time at the pearly gates right! government should not come into play and make laws about what a woman can and cannot do with her body. man should not come into play coz it's not his body the baby grows inside. that maybe seen as unfair and unequal but it's just how we've been designed.

at the end of the day it should always be the woman's choice with her living with the choices she makes.