The right to abortion

it amazes me, in this day and age, that people want to have laws that force pregnancies upon females (women & girls, because young girls fall pregnant too).

this is not the dark ages. this is not a time of ignorance and intolerance (well it is .. but it shouldn't be.)

and what of the males (men & boys) who get females pregnant? what happens to them? are they forced to pay for said abortions? will they be in trouble for the females unwanted pregnancies?

most of the females i know who've had abortions had them because the male who had gotten them pregnant didn't want to stay with them, didn't want the baby or didn't want to pay for the raising of the baby. it was his idea not hers. his enforcement.

there are still many females who willing choose abortion over having a baby, as is their right. if a male can forfeit all rights and responsibilities while should females be forced to go through with a birth?

not everyone will have an enjoyable, healthy, safe pregnancy. why force it on someone?

not everyone will make a good parent. why force it on someone?

not all babies will be born healthy and happy. why force it on someone / society?

i get we live in a time of survival of all, instead of survival of the fittest, and it's no longer acceptable to remove severely disable people from the community, even though some disabilities will be and are a drain on the economy and that person will not have a good life .. but a mere existence.

why are we so insistent of the birth and survival of all?

it's not like the world isn't over populated already. it's not like we don't have all these other children in need of care right now, who are abused, neglected, tortured, raped etc. while little is done to help them.

will all those who believe abortion is wrong be forced to foster children since they wholeheartedly believe all life is important .. or will they get to sit in their glass houses judging others who choose not too have children?

do those who believe in anti-abortion eat meat? meat is murder. why do fetus lives matter while animals lives do not?

do those who believe in anti-abortion watch pornography? pornography is the suffering, abuse and torture of people. who are they to say that abortion is wrong yet abuse of people is ok.

do those who believe in anti-abortion abuser others, judge others, hate others. why is one sin seen as ok while another sin is not?

if those who are anti-abortion believe in god and that is the reason they see abortion as wrong, then they need to be quiet and leave it in gods hands. for if god truly does believe abortion is wrong (even though the bible is full of tales of god asking followers to kill) it will be taken care of come judgement day, yes? no need for man to get involved at all right!

at the end of they day we are but mere ants. we live. we die. we're forgotten. lives goes on.

move on.

get over it.

the man of my dreams - poem

i dated the man of my dreams
  he was a veritable apollo
    but not ready to settle down

i dated the man of my dreams
  he was brilliant in bed
    but volatile out of bed

i dated the man of my dreams
  he was kind and compassionate
    but ruled by his mother

i dated the man of my dreams
  he was a terrific dancer
    but a game player

i dated the man of my dreams
  he was an amazing artist
    but cold as ice

i dated the man of my dreams
  he was all about unconditional love
    but he was a nomad

i dated the man of my dreams
  he was financially savvy
    but controlling and distant

if only i could pool all those fine qualities, and delete all the shitty ones, into the one
'man of my dreams'

life sucks

there is an offensive rental van that says: life s@cks if my gf doesn't.

but she's a slut, a ho, a trollop, promiscuous if she does. too many times females are treated lowly for giving sexual pleasure to a males .. and seen as frigid if they don't.

this is a derogatory statement made by men for men. it shows little regard or respect for females. 
the same men are the one's who wear t.shirts like this ..

[how many guys are reciprocating? how many guys are going down town? what about how her life sucks b/c he doesn't?]

for some reason there are males out there who don't respect females who have sex with them. 

and males who don't like gay guys who also find males hot either.

who picked your sexuality?

who picked theirs?

if men don't like men who find men sexy.

and they don't like women who find them sexy either.

maybe men dislike themselves so much they believe no one should find them sexy?

not all men

yes ALL men

all men at some stage during their lives will have been sexist towards women in some shape or form. it is very hard to go through life in a society such as ours without engaging in some form of sexism or another.

sexism towards women in by far the biggest reason females are seen as the inferior sex. it is by far the main reason males feel entitled to sex. it is by far the main reason incels hate women who won't sleep with them (because they have a grandiose feeling of entitlement due to sexualisation of women - they sleep with everyone else, why not them?)

sexualising women fuels men's desires for sex, it turns them on, feeds their fantasies, makes them view women as inferior and existing solely for their sexual pleasure.

it may not be the main cause for abuse, rape and murder of women - there would be many other factors related to why men do this - but it does contribute to women being lessor and therefore attackable.

females should be allowed to exist in this world without fear of attack but this just isn't the case.

so before you say #notallmen let us be clear, if you have done any of the following you are part of the problem:

• called a female a slut because she slept with guys
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• called a female a tease (or worse) because she wouldn't sleep with you
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• badgered a female into having sex with you
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• watch pornography and sexual violence of women
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• go online to sext with little girls (& boys)
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• visited strip joints and x rated stores
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• play for a sports club that brings in strippers as male entertainment
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• read playboy 
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• trolled women on social media or did nothing while others trolled 
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• hang on incel sites and join in hateful conversations towards women
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• seek prostitutes because they believe their entitled to sex 
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• visit trafficked women and children 
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• engage in the trafficking of people, or standby and let this happen, this includes pimps
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• pass laws about female reproductive issues 
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• slept with drunk girls who couldn't say 'yes' (even if it's your girlfriend or wife) or stood by while others did this (or worse took photos!)
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• asked girls for sexual selfies 
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• abuse wives and children (thus perpetuating the cycle of abuse)
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• have friends who abuse their girlfriends, wives or children, while you do nothing
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• have sons who abuse girlfriends, wives or children, while you do nothing
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• sent dick pics (this is really just a flasher in disguise)
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• watched shows with unequal portions of female nudity, or been an actor alongside this happening to female colleges
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• watched music videos that sexualise females, or produce this type of imagery
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• work in media where unequal portions of female nudity, sexualised females and sexual violence is perpetrated against females, while you sit by and let it happen
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• have profited from the sale of females as a commodity
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• posted pics of cars/bikes/boats etc. where a female is sexualised alongside said vehicle
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• worked along side office staff who disrespect/sexualise/harass women while you say and do nothing
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• if you know that males live these lifestyles and do nothing because you think you're good and your ciricle of friends is good, you're part of the problem

the only way to tackle the problem is to buck a system that systematically puts women in the basket of sexual giver and men in the basket of receiver.

as you can see there are many ways to disrespect females in this world and we'd be hard pressed to find a man who hasn't done at least one of these things. that is literally millions of men on this earth being sexist towards women. and not because this is normal male behavior or normal relationships between the sexes. this is all learned stuff. all allowed by people within our society because men don't want to have to give it up.

this is why it is so important for more and more men (and women) to not buy into the crap. does the buck stop with you? will you be the type of man who breaks the cycle?

why - poem

 why do i do it?

is it boredom?

it's not done when working.

rarely done outside the home.

no real pressure.

do i seek the managable stress?

perhaps.

it makes me fidget.

active, mentally, creatively, thinking, planning.

head spins, spinny.

i ache, i pain. tooth, back, hip.

i love,

then i'm agitated.

stressed, busy

so much to do, so little done

where the time go?