that girl who says it's ok for your bf to hit you

here's what i have to say about (name) and her rediculous message about girls should let their bfs hit them. it's a sign of love.

firstly dr phil handled her well, he posed questions to her she couldn't answer without perjuring herself. he said she was a hypocrit for wanting money from the bf who'd hit her, saying she'd drop the charges if he gave her the money. dr phil said she was a hypocrit for saying it's ok for him to hit her then wanting money from it, setting him up and lying to the public.

i thought she was more hypcritical because she charged him.

love, if it's ok for your bf to hit you, why did you charge him in the first place? is there a limit they can hit you? if so don't put up some video crapping on about how he didn't you hard enough so you broke up with him, because it means he doesn't love you enough.

she got caught out under dr phils intellect, research and whit. in the end she had no come back. when he announced something about her childhood she walked off stage. public conversation ended.

did she take the video down? apologize? admit she was a douche? admit it's not ok for a girl to be hit by her man, not ok for anyone to be hitting anyone. that it's all cock and bollocks when she says she dumped him because he didn't hit hard enough.

patricia arquette speech

so much talk about her speech saying it was racist and gayist and all that jazz. saying it was just privileged white chick playing victim when what the african americans are dealing with is so much worse.

some dude (or dudess) made a video about it using statistics on how bad they've got it and i don't deny it. it's shit. it's cock and bollocks. but .. one's person suffering doesn't denote another, even when it happens more often. that just proves the shit is bad and needs fixing.

nowhere in patricia's speech did she say what others had gone through was trivial. what she did say is we've (mostly and many women) have supported people in those positions, minorities, the mistreated, hard done by people. we've supported the down and out. we've fought for them.

to my mind, the only way to succeed it is to join together. all of the misfortunate. join in and say the same message. it's not good enough. i love hearing about the truth of what is happening to others and i'm glad that dudess put it out there. it gives us knowledge and something to fight for.

don't fob the white chick off because she's white and doesn't suffer what and how you suffer. she still suffers and understands suffering and wants change just as much as you do.