all men at some stage during their lives will have been sexist towards women in some shape or form. it is very hard to go through life in a society such as ours without engaging in some form of sexism or another.
sexism towards women in by far the biggest reason females are seen as the inferior sex. it is by far the main reason males feel entitled to sex. it is by far the main reason incels hate women who won't sleep with them (because they have a grandiose feeling of entitlement due to sexualisation of women - they sleep with everyone else, why not them?)
sexualising women fuels men's desires for sex, it turns them on, feeds their fantasies, makes them view women as inferior and existing solely for their sexual pleasure.
it may not be the main cause for abuse, rape and murder of women - there would be many other factors related to why men do this - but it does contribute to women being lessor and therefore attackable.
females should be allowed to exist in this world without fear of attack but this just isn't the case.
so before you say #notallmen let us be clear, if you have done any of the following you are part of the problem:
- called a female a slut because she slept with guys
- called a female a tease (or worse) because she wouldn't sleep with you
- badgered a female into having sex with you
- watch pornography and sexual violence of women
- go online to sext with little girls (& boys)
- visited strip joints and x rated stores
- play for a sports club that brings in strippers as male entertainment
- read playboy
- trolled women on social media or did nothing while others trolled
- hang on incel sites and join in hateful conversations towards women
- seek prostitutes because they believe their entitled to sex
- visit trafficked women and children
- engage in the trafficking of people, or standby and let this happen, this includes pimps
- pass laws about female reproductive issues
- slept with drunk girls who couldn't say 'yes' (even if it's your girlfriend or wife) or stood by while others did this (or worse took photos!)
- asked girls for sexual selfies
- abuse wives and children (thus perpetuating the cycle of abuse)
- have friends who abuse their girlfriends, wives or children, while you do nothing
- have sons who abuse girlfriends, wives or children, while you do nothing
- sent dick pics (this is really just a flasher in disguise)
- watched shows with unequal portions of female nudity, or been an actor alongside this happening to female colleges
- watched music videos that sexualise females, or produce this type of imagery
- work in media where unequal portions of female nudity, sexualised females and sexual violence is perpetrated against females, while you sit by and let it happen
- have profited from the sale of females as a commodity
- posted pics of cars/bikes/boats etc. where a female is sexualised alongside said vehicle
- worked along side office staff who disrespect/sexualise/harass women while you say and do nothing
- if you know that males live these lifestyles and do nothing because you think you're good and your ciricle of friends is good, you're part of the problem
the only way to tackle the problem is to buck a system that systematically puts women in the basket of sexual giver and men in the basket of receiver.
as you can see there are many ways to disrespect females in this world and we'd be hard pressed to find a man who hasn't done at least one of these things. that is literally millions of men on this earth being sexist towards women. and not because this is normal male behavior or normal relationships between the sexes. this is all learned stuff. all allowed by people within our society because men don't want to have to give it up.
this is why it is so important for more and more men (and women) to not buy into the crap. does the buck stop with you? will you be the type of man who breaks the cycle?
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